Ask 20 people what defines happiness, and you will likely get 20 different answers. Taking God completely out of the equation, I could at least sympathize with the answer, “Doing what you enjoy for a living.” After all, the old high school guidance counselor question was, “What would you do if you had a million dollars?” The answer to that is supposed to be whatever you should do for a living. (Office Space is a great movie, by the way.)
Today, the world of comedy was struck a harsh blow as we all learn of the suicide of comedian Richard Jeni. Richard was a relatively famous comedian in the world of comedy. Very few people in the business were unaware of his amazing amount of material on which he could expound for hours. As Frazer Smith, fellow comedian, said of his colleague, the young comedians all looked up to him. He had been in movies, and had guest-starred on several TV shows throughout the years. His first break had been on the Johnny Carson show where he appeared to entertain the audience as well as his idol, Richard Pryor. He since went on to appear on the show under Jay Leno as well. He had his own HBO Comedy Special, which most comedians will tell you is the golden ring. You know you’ve made it when you get your own HBO Comedy Special. Most people would recognize Richard from the Jim Carrey movie, “The Mask”, where he played Jim Carrey’s woman-chasing friend, Charlie, who first invites him to the Copa Cabana club.
Richard Jeni wasn’t happy, apparently. It must be noted that his suicide isn’t confirmed…only suspected. However, all signs point to a self-inflicted gunshot. None of his fame made him happy. Doing what he enjoyed for a living didn’t make him happy. Perhaps he saw what many consider to be less-talented comedians making it in television and movies ahead of him. Perhaps what drove him to his eventual end was knowing that he could sacrifice his art and do more “common” humor to “make it big”. Maybe he wasn’t willing to do that, and had relegated himself to never being the “big star”. Whatever it was, he wasn’t happy.
Should men, even Christian men, derive pleasure and self-worth from their work? I would say that’s not unreasonable. After all, the human race was cursed by God in their primary roles, as I’ve mentioned before. Man was cursed in his work, and he was told by the Lord that he would HAVE to work the rest of his life; that he would have to toil hard to provide for his family. The Lord expects us to provide for our family. And we should feel a certain amount of happiness when we do a good job, remembering of course to praise the Lord for our abilities, and for making it possible to serve Him in our work. However, that can’t be our ultimate source of happiness. I work because I enjoy what I do, but it’s not the primary reason. I work to provide for my wife. I work so that when I get home, I can spend time with her. I work to serve the Lord; glorifying Him is my ultimate goal after all. Still, there are days when I come home from work wondering why I even bother. (Mind you, finding a healthy workplace has done wonders for my good/bad day ratio, but no work environment is perfect.) It’s those days when I’m forcefully reminded that sole source of happiness is not and can never be my workplace.
At any rate, I was just giving some thought to this after hearing of Richard Jeni’s suicide. I had heard him on the Bob and Tom Show and only recently connected him with his character on The Mask. He was quite funny. By the standards of comedians, he was quite successful. But he was not happy.
Do you want to understand where true happiness lies? Do you not know what I mean when I state that man’s chief end is to glorify the Lord? Read the Bible. Find a church and get involved. Become a member. It’s not enough to say “I believe in God.” It’s not enough to say, “I’m basically a good person.” You’re not good enough…even demons believe in God. None of that is enough. Read the Word of God. Find out what the Lord expects of us. The Bible is God’s ONLY revelation about Himself and His plan for salvation. It is complete, and when paired with a church where it is preached faithfully, it is all you need.